Passion, it’s one of god’s greatest gifts to being human. It separates us from other species in the animal kingdom. What does passion feel like? That’s a very personal question because people feel passion in their own unique way. Some of us gush with passion while others have trouble feeling passionate about anything.

To me, passion is kind of a deep internal euphoric feeling about some activity, or someone of which I can’t get enough. It swells up in me. Gardening and fly fishing give me that feeling. I hope that everyone can find something that gives them that emotion. It’s special but certainly not unattainable for everyone.

Over the 30 years of my marriage to the same woman I have been asked more times than I can count on one hand what is your secret? I always answer the question the same way with a one word answer, passion. Passion helps bridge the gap when things aren’t going so well in our relationship. It’s the glue that keeps us moving forward. I’m very lucky to have that connection with my wife. I have told my kids that passion would be a great start when choosing a significant other in their lives. I hope they take my advice before they “tie the knot”.

I know it’s hard to find but when you discover that connection with another person never take it for granted or dismiss it too quickly. You might never find it again.